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Alfred Martin

 CHAPTER I :  About me

Special about me is that... 

I have a very friendly and warm-hearted personality, am quite eloquent and very positive and am currently writing a book. 

The most important thing in my life is... 

  • to live a lot of COMMUNICATION AND OPENNESS
  • to have a great KNOWLEDGE about life and people
  • a great NEED FOR HARMONY
  • a strong EMPATHY for other people
  • a lot of CARING for others and especially for children
  • A NEED FOR PEACE to recharge your batteries again and again

A strange habit of mine is...

to say a few nice words, perhaps a compliment, something positive, optimistic or encouraging, even to people I only meet by coincidence and don't know personally. Most of them are quite astonished at first, but are then visibly happy about it. This gives me a lot of pleasure and motivates me.

It makes me happy when I can ...

address other people in a friendly manner, encourage them and make them happy, by creating a harmonious interpersonal atmosphere.

I am grateful for...

my life so far with a very beautiful childhood and youth, my loving and positive parental home, my good time at school and university, my successful professional career full of fulfillment and appreciation and my wonderful family in the 26 years of my marriage...
... and also for the fact that the coming period of my life promises to be very enjoyable!


 CHAPTER II :   THE MOTTO OF MY LIFE

 

Friendly persuasion

is stronger than
aggressive attitute!

 

 CHAPTER III :  MY PRINCIPLES OF LIFE

which I have defined for myself:

 

 

 

 

THEORY is important,
but relevant for success are only your ACTIVITIES IN THE REALITY OF LIFE.

 

 

 

Success factors:

  1. Own creativity, innovation and ideas
  2. Own initiative
  3. Own experience
  4. Own motivation and discipline
  5. Own skills
  6. Fortune through external influence and force majeure

 

 

 

 

The basic attitude of your contact persons should determine how you treat them!

 

You better be good to the friendly ones and better be tough to the aggressive ones!

 

 

 

 

 

 

The pen is stronger than the sword!

 

 

 

 

 

 

Life has been good to me, so I will be good to the people around me.

 

 

 

My attitude should be guided by the following seven princiles that I have designed for myself:

  • Friendly persuasion
  • Positive thinking
  • Being constructive
  • Encouraging others
  • Solving conflicts with friendliness
  • Building bridges for other people
  • Treating people according to their attitude, but starting with friendliness if in doubt

 

 

Try to escape situations that are characterized by unreasonable and bizarre
leadership behavior!

 

Paranoid leadership behaviour, coupled with outrageous egoism, leads in the long run to the disintegration of every human group and every civilization!

 

 


 CHAPTER IV :  MY CURRENT BOOK

Title: "Being successful in real life"

Subtitle: Guide to a happy, self-determined and fulfilled life

Short discription: Valuable observations of the author in the reality of life and his helpful conclusions


 CHAPTER V :  FURTHER PLANNED PUBLICATIONS FOR THE FUTURE 

After the current guidebook, which is in the final stages of completion, I have the following topics for further publications in the pipeline. Here are some more ideas of mine for comming guidebooks, which I partly started already:

Title: THE FACETS OF THE HUMAN PERSONALITY

Subtitle: Important aspects for the assessment of loved ones, newly met people and problematic people

Title: THE FIRST SUCCESS INSPIRES FURTHER SUCCESSES - USE IT!

Subtitle: Showing initiative and being successful through positive drive in a constructive atmosphere

Title: PROCRASTINATION - AND HOW TO BEAT IT!

Subtitle: A few little psychological tricks for your own soul and then everything will go by itself!

Title: PRESENT YOURSELF POSITIVELY - AND BE MODEST AND LIKEABLE AT THE SAME TIME!

Subtitle: An eloquent but modest and extroverted appearance - how does that work?

Title: FEMALE INTUITION IS UNBEATABLE!

Subtitle: A song of praise for women and their extraordinary abilities, but also a plea for cooperation between men and women at eye level!

Title: JUSTIFIED COMPLIMENTS AS AN IMPORTANT SUCCESS FACTOR

Subtitle: Expressing praise and recognition for real merits and abilities creates a win-win situation for both sides and paves the way for many successes

Title: FRIENDLY PERSUATION AS A SUBSTENTIAL WAY OF LIFE

Subtitle: An atmosphere of harmony as well as sustainable constructive help and positive thinking as the basis for joint success, but also for overcoming antagonism and unnecessary hostility

Title: MENTALLY PENETRATING THE MISTERIOUS FACTOR OF TIME AND USING IT FOR SUCCESS

Subtitle: Optimum rational grasp and handling of this very success-relevant factor, which even Albert Einstein could not describe in a tangible way and therefore jokingly defined time as "... the outstandingly mysterious entity which can be measured with a clock."

 CHAPTER VI :  The System "Martinsworld"

for the comprehensive support of self-management

My idea is to establish a system of philosophical and psychological rules and statements for the reality of life. 
I would like to make these available in books.
I have planned three cathegories of books:

 

1.  GUIDING BOOKS:

on general lifestyle and behavioral optimization
  • for problem solving and behavior optimization
  • on digital equipment (cell phones, laptops, travel printers, tablets, software, etc.)
  • for self-optimization (self-image)
  • on needs and desires
  • to optimize friendships and meetings, assessment of people
  • for self-presentation (through business cards, website, book, family crest, monogram, clothing, cosmetic care, physical activities, etc.)

 

2.  INSTRUMENTAL BOOKS :

  • for problem solving
  • for optimizing behaviour
  • for income planning/business planning
  • for financial planning
  • for purchase planning
  • for digital support
  • for private administration
  • for friendship planning
  • for language optimization
  • for future planning (strategic and operational)

 

3.  UTENSILS FOR SELF-MANAGEMENT:

  • To-do lists
  • To-buy lists
  • Contact details and description of important people
  • Diaries 2024, 2025, 2026
  • Directory of wise sayings and life mottos
  • Operational time planning and calendar
  • Important notes and presentations, ideas, innovations, initiatives
  • Important websites and passwords
  • Important restaurants and stores
  • Organizational charts and family trees
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